Relating to Relating

In my understanding or trying to understand relating, 

I have gone from: 

Why is this happening to me or why are they doing this to me?

to What is this doing to me?

to This is not ME!

I'm not responsible for the response or feelings of others. 

Staying true to myself.  Staying on my side of the fence.

Only my feelings.

Only my self judgements.

No Reflecting or Projecting!!

Release for Peace!!